Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Spiritual, But Not Religious

There is a church near me that often has some odd or disturbing sayings on their signboard. The most recent was, “Are you spiritual but not religious? Come worship with us.” Warm, inviting, open, non-threatening. All things that would appear to be good to attract people. But what is it really saying? What does it mean to be spiritual but not religious?

It seems to me that a church cannot be both spiritual and non-religious. Religion is merely a community of people that agree to worship together and agree on their spiritual tenets. The implication of spiritual but not religious would be that one believes in the supernatural, but there is no centralizing of those beliefs. So how could a church, which is a place of worship for people that share a centralized belief, be spiritual, but not religious? The two ideas are obviously in opposition. A church cannot be both spiritual and non-religious.

A church can be spiritual and religious, which I’d really hope is going on in a church, but the moment you get a group of people together believing the same thing, it becomes a religion. Just because that religion may not have a name yet doesn't mean it isn't religious. It is merely a means of identifying similar belief structures, akin to identifying as American, or Canadian, or Mexican-American. Labels are not the evil things we seem to think they are. Our brains need to label things in order to be able to identify them. If you didn't label anything, it would be difficult to communicate the idea of something without that label.

And just because people have done bad things in the name of their religion doesn't mean religion is evil. Religion helps us to identify, vocalize, and live out our spiritual beliefs. It helps us to find community, fellowship, and acceptance. It is why cliques form, like-minded people enjoy being together. It is much easier to communicate with and understand someone that believes like you.

It seems that spiritual has become good, and religion bad, but without being spiritual, you can’t be religious, and without being religious, you can’t find people to encourage you in your spirituality. It is complete absurdity to try to be spiritual and not religious in a church setting.